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Valideyn-\u015fagird-m\u00fc\u0259llim \u00fc\u00e7buca\u011f\u0131 nec\u0259 qurulmal\u0131<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n I yaz\u0131<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n T\u0259hsil sah\u0259sind\u0259 bitib-t\u00fck\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259n bir \u00e7ox probleml\u0259r m\u00f6vcuddur. Probleml\u0259rin s\u0259b\u0259bini h\u0259r\u0259 bir istiqam\u0259td\u0259 axtar\u0131r. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 vur\u011fulanan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rin bir \u00e7oxunu subyektiv v\u0259 \u0259sass\u0131z fikir hesab edir\u0259m. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 onlar\u0131 bir k\u0259nara qoyuram. Kadrlar\u0131n haz\u0131rlanmas\u0131, m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fck t\u0259hsil istiqam\u0259tind\u0259 olan \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131qlar\u0131 bir s\u0259b\u0259b say\u0131ram. Amma \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck q\u00fcsur, fikrimc\u0259, valideyn-\u015fagird-m\u00fc\u0259llim (m\u0259kt\u0259b) \u00fc\u00e7buca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fczg\u00fcn qurulmamas\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n T\u0259hsild\u0259 \u00e7ox zaman proqram, d\u0259rslik, imtahan, maa\u015f, texnologiya kimi m\u00f6vzular \u00f6n\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kilir. Bunlar vacibdir, amma \u0259sas m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r sistemi qurulmayanda onlar\u0131n t\u0259siri m\u0259hdud qal\u0131r. Valideyn + \u015eagird + M\u0259kt\u0259b (M\u00fc\u0259llim) \u00fc\u00e7buca\u011f\u0131 \u0259slind\u0259 t\u0259hsilin sosial m\u00fcqavil\u0259sidir. Bu d\u00fczg\u00fcn qurulmayanda dig\u0259r islahatlar da yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q qal\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n \u00b7 Bir \u00e7ox ail\u0259l\u0259r m\u0259kt\u0259bi \u201cxidm\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259\u201d kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcr, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc is\u0259 prosesin t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f\u0131 hesab etmir.<\/span><\/p>\n N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259t m\u0259kt\u0259bin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 at\u0131l\u0131r; u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f v\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259 v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259ri evd\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259nmir; m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259 \u0259m\u0259kda\u015fl\u0131q yerin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131durma yaran\u0131r. Halbuki valideyn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ilk m\u00fc\u0259llimidir.<\/span><\/p>\n \u00b7 \u015eagird bir \u00e7ox hallarda prosesin m\u0259rk\u0259zi olsa da, m\u0259sul t\u0259r\u0259f kimi yox, sad\u0259c\u0259 qiym\u0259t alan t\u0259r\u0259f kimi yeti\u015fdirilir.<\/span><\/p>\n N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 daxili motivasiya z\u0259ifl\u0259yir; \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k yox, qiym\u0259t almaq \u0259sas m\u0259qs\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7evrilir; m\u0259suliyy\u0259t hissi formala\u015fm\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n \u00b7 M\u0259kt\u0259b b\u0259z\u0259n yaln\u0131z t\u0259dris ed\u0259n struktur kimi \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f edir, t\u0259rbiy\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015fl\u0131q funksiyas\u0131 k\u00f6lg\u0259d\u0259 qal\u0131r. M\u00fc\u0259llim is\u0259 h\u0259m pedaqoq, h\u0259m psixoloq, h\u0259m idar\u0259\u00e7i, h\u0259m d\u0259 hesabat ver\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs kimi y\u00fckl\u0259nir.<\/span> B\u0259s \u0259sas problem n\u0259dir? \u018fsas problem etimad\u0131n z\u0259ifl\u0259m\u0259sidir:<\/span><\/p>\n \u2022 Valideyn m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 tam g\u00fcv\u0259nmir.<\/span> Bel\u0259likl\u0259, \u00fc\u00e7bucaq yox, par\u00e7alanm\u0131\u015f x\u0259ttl\u0259r al\u0131n\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n D\u00fcz\u0259l\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k problem olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kimi, bu problemin d\u0259 h\u0259lli yollar\u0131 m\u00f6vcuddur. T\u0259klif ed\u0259c\u0259yimiz 4 istiqam\u0259t\u0259 diqq\u0259t yetirin:<\/span> Valideyn iclaslar\u0131 formal yox, praktik olmal\u0131d\u0131r:<\/span><\/p>\n \u2022 u\u015faqda m\u0259suliyy\u0259t nec\u0259 yarad\u0131l\u0131r?<\/span> \u015eagirdin m\u0259suliyy\u0259t m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259ti formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n \u015eagird bilm\u0259lidir ki, h\u00fcququ var, amma v\u0259zif\u0259si d\u0259 var. M\u00fc\u0259llim xidm\u0259t\u00e7i, valideyn is\u0259 m\u00fcdafi\u0259\u00e7i deyil, o \u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6z g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yinin sahibidir.<\/span> N\u0259hay\u0259t, m\u00fc\u0259llimin statusu yenil\u0259nm\u0259lidir.<\/span><\/p>\n C\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llim n\u00fcfuzu b\u0259rpa olunmadan \u00fc\u00e7bucaq sa\u011flam qurulmur. M\u00fc\u0259llimi m\u00fcxt\u0259lif prosesl\u0259rd\u0259 al\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7evirm\u0259k v\u0259rdi\u015find\u0259n tamamil\u0259 \u0259l \u00e7\u0259km\u0259k, onun pe\u015f\u0259karl\u0131q s\u0259viyy\u0259sininin art\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qalmaq vacibdir.<\/span><\/p>\n T\u0259hsilin b\u00f6hran\u0131 \u00e7ox zaman d\u0259rslik b\u00f6hran\u0131 deyil, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r b\u00f6hran\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r valideyn – \u015fagird – m\u00fc\u0259llim bir komandaya \u00e7evril\u0259rs\u0259, orta s\u0259viyy\u0259li proqramla bel\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259 almaq olar. Amma bu \u00fc\u00e7l\u00fck par\u00e7alanarsa, \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 proqram da u\u011fursuz olar.<\/span><\/p>\n T\u0259hsil m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 yox, ail\u0259 il\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bin \u0259l s\u0131xd\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerd\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n Hiday\u0259t Allahverdi,<\/strong><\/span> Valideyn-\u015fagird-m\u00fc\u0259llim \u00fc\u00e7buca\u011f\u0131 nec\u0259 qurulmal\u0131 I yaz\u0131 T\u0259hsil sah\u0259sind\u0259 bitib-t\u00fck\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259n bir \u00e7ox probleml\u0259r m\u00f6vcuddur. 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\nN\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llim yorulur; \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t keyfiyy\u0259ti d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr; m\u0259kt\u0259b ail\u0259d\u0259n uzaqla\u015f\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n
\n\u2022 M\u00fc\u0259llim valideyn d\u0259st\u0259yini hiss etmir.<\/span>
\n\u2022 \u015eagird h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259fin ziddiyy\u0259tini g\u00f6r\u00fcr v\u0259 bo\u015fluqdan istifad\u0259 edir.<\/span><\/p>\n
\nH\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l valideyn maarifl\u0259ndirilm\u0259si g\u0259lir.<\/span><\/p>\n
\n\u2022 telefon as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 nec\u0259 idar\u0259 olunur?<\/span>
\n\u2022 ev tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131\u011f\u0131na nec\u0259 yana\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r?<\/span>
\n\u2022 m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259 nec\u0259 \u0259m\u0259kda\u015fl\u0131q etm\u0259li?<\/span><\/p>\n
\nM\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t modeli t\u0259kmill\u0259\u015fdirilm\u0259lidir.<\/span>
\nM\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t dili d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259lidir: c\u0259za dili yox, inki\u015faf dili \u00f6n\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xmal\u0131d\u0131r. Qorxunu qaydalara riay\u0259t etm\u0259 z\u0259rur\u0259ti, formal hesabat\u0131 real \u0259m\u0259kda\u015fl\u0131q \u0259v\u0259z etm\u0259lidir.<\/span><\/p>\n
\nM\u00fcsavat Partiyas\u0131 T\u0259hsil Komissiyas\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259dri.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"