{"id":25353,"date":"2026-05-18T18:29:09","date_gmt":"2026-05-18T15:29:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/?p=25353"},"modified":"2026-05-18T18:29:09","modified_gmt":"2026-05-18T15:29:09","slug":"valideyn-sagird-mu%c9%99llim-ucbucagi-ii-yazi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/?p=25353","title":{"rendered":"Valideyn-\u015fagird-m\u00fc\u0259llim \u00fc\u00e7buca\u011f\u0131 – II yaz\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"

Az\u0259rbaycan reall\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 10 madd\u0259lik Valideyn-\u015fagird-m\u0259kt\u0259b \u0259m\u0259kda\u015fl\u0131q modeli t\u0259klif edirik. Bu modelin m\u0259qs\u0259di m\u0259kt\u0259bi t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na m\u0259sul t\u0259r\u0259f olmaqdan \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131b, ail\u0259-m\u0259kt\u0259b-\u015fagird ortaq m\u0259suliyy\u0259t sistemi yaratmaqd\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

1.Bu model\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 t\u0259hsilin \u0259sas t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015flar\u0131 r\u0259sm\u0259n tan\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki m\u0259kt\u0259b yaln\u0131z d\u0259rs ke\u00e7\u0259n yer deyil. T\u0259hsil prosesinin 3 \u0259sas t\u0259r\u0259fi var: m\u0259kt\u0259b\/m\u00fc\u0259llim, valideyn, \u015fagird. H\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7 t\u0259r\u0259fin h\u00fcquq v\u0259 v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259ri yaz\u0131l\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259qdim olunmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

2.T\u0259dris ilinin \u0259vv\u0259lind\u0259 h\u0259r sinif \u00fczr\u0259 q\u0131sa \u0259m\u0259kda\u015fl\u0131q s\u0259n\u0259di –\u201cOrtaq raz\u0131la\u015fma s\u0259n\u0259di\u201d haz\u0131rlanmal\u0131d\u0131r. S\u0259n\u0259dd\u0259 konkret m\u00fcdd\u0259alar: davamiyy\u0259t qaydas\u0131, davran\u0131\u015f normalar\u0131, ev tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131\u011f\u0131 siyas\u0259ti, m\u00fc\u0259llim-valideyn \u0259laq\u0259 qaydas\u0131, \u015fagird m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259ri \u00f6z \u0259ksini tapmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu s\u0259n\u0259d imza xarakterli yox, anla\u015fma xarakterli olmal\u0131d\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n

3.Valideyn iclaslar\u0131 yenil\u0259nm\u0259li, \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi \u201cqar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 \u015fikay\u0259t iclaslar\u0131 l\u0259\u011fv edilm\u0259lidir. Yenil\u0259nmi\u015f iclaslar konkret m\u00f6vzular\u0131n m\u00fczakir\u0259 meydan\u0131na \u00e7evrilm\u0259lidir. Bu m\u00f6vzular m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vr \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn aktual olan yeniyetm\u0259 psixologiyas\u0131, telefon v\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 balans\u0131, imtahan stressi, motivasiya yaratmaq yollar\u0131, evd\u0259 oxu m\u00fchiti yaratmaq kimi m\u00f6vzular ola bil\u0259r.<\/span><\/p>\n

4.M\u00fc\u0259llim-valideyn \u0259laq\u0259si etik \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259y\u0259 sal\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r. Gec\u0259yar\u0131s\u0131 yaz\u0131\u015fmalar, emosional mesajlar, qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 t\u0259hqir v\u0259 t\u0259zyiq hallar\u0131n\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131 al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ham\u0131n\u0131n q\u0259bul edib, poza bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yi qaydalar m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edilm\u0259lidir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 \u0259laq\u0259 saatlar\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edilsin; <\/span>
\n\u2022 r\u0259smi platforma se\u00e7ilsin; <\/span>
\n\u2022 h\u00f6rm\u0259t dili qorunsun; <\/span>
\n\u2022 problem yaz\u0131\u015fma il\u0259 yox, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259 h\u0259ll edilsin.<\/span><\/p>\n

5.\u015eagird m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259\u00e7i yox, i\u015ftirak\u00e7\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. O yaln\u0131z qiym\u0259t alan \u015f\u0259xs kimi yox, proses i\u015ftirak\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 kimi yeti\u015fdirilm\u0259lidir. El\u0259 etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, \u015fagird sinif qaydalar\u0131n\u0131n haz\u0131rlanmas\u0131nda i\u015ftirak etsin. T\u0259\u015fkil edilmi\u015f ayl\u0131q \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcqiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259d\u0259 i\u015ftirak etsin v\u0259 \u00f6z m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259rini yazs\u0131n. Sinif layih\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 onlar\u0131n rol almas\u0131na nail olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Aktivlik d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259sind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq bu i\u015ftiraklar \u015fagirdi prosesin i\u015ftirak\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7evirir, \u00f6z d\u0259y\u0259rini bilir.<\/span><\/p>\n

6.Qiym\u0259t\u0259 yox, inki\u015faf m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tin\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verilm\u0259lidir. Valideynin h\u0259r g\u00fcn \u201cNe\u00e7\u0259 ald\u0131n?\u201d sual\u0131 m\u00fcasir qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259 siyas\u0259tin\u0259 d\u0259 mane olur. Prosesi o istiqam\u0259t\u0259 y\u00f6n\u0259ltm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, valideyn qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259d\u0259 fikrini summativ qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 k\u00f6kl\u0259sin. G\u00fcnd\u0259likd\u0259 is\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n n\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259ndiyin\u0259, harada \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kdiyin\u0259, hans\u0131 bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n artd\u0131\u011f\u0131na, nec\u0259 inki\u015faf ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 dair suallar versin.<\/span><\/p>\n

7.M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 bir \u00e7ox konfliktin k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 t\u0259hsil deyil, emosional g\u0259rginlik dayan\u0131r. M\u0259kt\u0259b psixoloqunun aktiv rolu art\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 valideyn konsultasiyas\u0131, \u015fagird davran\u0131\u015f d\u0259st\u0259yi, h\u0259tta m\u00fc\u0259llim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn stress idar\u0259etm\u0259si laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

8.M\u0259kt\u0259b r\u0259hb\u0259rliyi m\u00fc\u0259llim n\u00fcfuzunun qorunmas\u0131na cavabdehdir. Valideyn qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda m\u00fc\u0259llimi al\u00e7altmaq u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sin\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259r vurur. \u018fg\u0259r t\u0259nqid varsa, onu \u015fagird yan\u0131nda etm\u0259k olmaz. Bu t\u0259nqidi emosional \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 yox, faktlarla, m\u0259kt\u0259b daxilind\u0259 etik qaydada etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

9.M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 yaln\u0131z probleml\u0259r yarand\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman deyil, u\u011fur \u0259ld\u0259 edil\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259 qurulmal\u0131d\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n: n\u00fcmun\u0259vi davran\u0131\u015f, ir\u0259lil\u0259yi\u015f g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n \u015fagirdin bu hal\u0131 qeyd edilm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259laq\u0259 qurulmal\u0131d\u0131r. Onlar\u0131n yarad\u0131c\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259ri, sosial faydal\u0131 f\u0259aliyy\u0259tl\u0259ri x\u00fcsusi vur\u011fulanmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu, m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti m\u00fcsb\u0259t\u0259 do\u011fru d\u0259yi\u015fir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 u\u011furlar birg\u0259 qeyd edilm\u0259lidir.<\/span><\/p>\n

10.M\u0259kt\u0259b ail\u0259l\u0259rin etibar etdiyi inki\u015faf m\u0259kan\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Burada seminarlar, kitab g\u00fcnl\u0259ri, valideynl\u0259rin i\u015ftirak etdiyi layih\u0259l\u0259r, pe\u015f\u0259 tan\u0131t\u0131mlar\u0131, icitimai faydal\u0131 t\u0259dbirl\u0259r ke\u00e7iril\u0259 bil\u0259r. Ax\u0131 m\u0259kt\u0259b \u201cc\u0259za yeri\u201d yox, icma m\u0259rk\u0259zi olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/span>
\nYax\u015f\u0131 m\u0259kt\u0259b = G\u00fccl\u00fc m\u00fc\u0259llim + M\u0259suliyy\u0259tli valideyn + Motivasiyal\u0131 \u015fagird!<\/span>
\nBizim valideynl\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ox sevir, amma b\u0259z\u0259n h\u0259ddind\u0259n \u00e7ox qoruyurlar. <\/span>
\nPe\u015f\u0259kar m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rimiz d\u0259 \u00e7oxdur, amma sistem y\u00fck\u00fc \u00e7ox olur. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bacar\u0131ql\u0131 \u015fagirdl\u0259rimiz d\u0259 \u00e7oxdur, amma onlar m\u0259qs\u0259d y\u00f6n\u00fcml\u00fc yeti\u015fdirilmir. <\/span>
\nT\u0259klif etdiyimiz model bu \u00fc\u00e7 bo\u015flu\u011fu doldurma\u011fa xidm\u0259t edir.<\/span>
\nT\u0259hsili nazirlik t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na d\u00fcz\u0259ld\u0259 bilm\u0259z. T\u0259hsili ail\u0259 il\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b birlikd\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259ld\u0259r.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hiday\u0259t Allahverdi,<\/strong><\/span>
\nM\u00fcsavat Partiyas\u0131 T\u0259hsil Komissiyas\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259dri<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Az\u0259rbaycan reall\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 10 madd\u0259lik Valideyn-\u015fagird-m\u0259kt\u0259b \u0259m\u0259kda\u015fl\u0131q modeli t\u0259klif edirik. Bu modelin m\u0259qs\u0259di m\u0259kt\u0259bi t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na m\u0259sul t\u0259r\u0259f olmaqdan \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131b, ail\u0259-m\u0259kt\u0259b-\u015fagird<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":25354,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29,35],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25353","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-manset","category-olk"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/17857.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25353","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=25353"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25353\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25355,"href":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25353\/revisions\/25355"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/25354"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=25353"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=25353"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/basta2.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=25353"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}